Friday, April 13, 2012

舍得

当你紧握双手,里面什么也没有;
当你打开双手,世界就在你手中。
懂得放弃,才能在有限的生命里活得充实、饱满、旺盛!

舍得笑,得到的是友谊;
舍得宽容,得到的是大气;

舍得诚实,得到的是朋友;
舍得面子,得到的是实在;
舍得酒色,得到的是健康;
舍得虚名,得到的是逍遥;
舍得施舍,得到的是美名;
舍得红尘,得到的是天尊。



舍得小,就有可能得大;
舍得近,就有可能得到远。



舍得某种精神,就有可能得到某种物质,
舍得某种物质,就有可能得到某种精神。


而有些人就是为了两片薄面而争,
为了一条贱命而战,一身虚荣,一身醋味,
值么?累吗?


舍得舍得,
有舍就有得;
得失得失,
有得就有失。

人世间就是这么奇妙,你又何须苦苦追寻一个目标。

放得下,才能走得远!

有所放弃,才能有所追求.

什么也不愿放弃的人,反而会失去最珍贵的东西.


Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Think Twice

How I treat you depend on how you treated me…

Think twice,
Who is the one brought you to clinic when you sick?

Think twice,
Who is the one cook porridge for you when you sick?

Think twice,
Who is the one provide transport for you when you are helpless?

Think twice,
Who is the one lie for you when you need it?

Think twice,
Who is the one willing to eat mamak store with you when you run out of money?

Think twice,
Who is the one provide you the answer for quiz when you don’t even pick up the phone?

Think twice,
Who is the one send you for exhibition’s decoration when I’m don’t even need to be in the decoration team?

Think twice,
Who is the one celebrated your birthday when others don’t even plan for it?

Think twice before you speak,
Think twice before you act,
& think you before you face me.

As a ex-friend,
I have done fucking enough for you.
Think twice what you in return to me.


Breast Cancer Awareness Campaign- “Love Your Breast, Stay Abreast”(Part 2)

During the exhibition,
I was first assigned with the task to approach the public.
It was really horrible & terrible…
and it really upset when rejected & refused by the public,
while still showing smile and say “thank you”.

Normally,
the lame excuses will be…
“No time…No time…”
“I heard about it before…”
“I will come back later…”

The WORST thing is…
some of them don’t even look at you!!!

One of my colleagues commented:
“if one day I would ever see back those people in my clinic, I will  never treat them and ask them go back home!”

In fact,
he is just kinda pissed off
with those who are not concern & interested to know about their own health.

Then,
I changed my responsibility to demonstrate and explain about self-breast examination.

Yet,
there are still some of them who concern about it.
I feel proud to the 2 mothers whom I presented to,
and brought their daughters along for the self-breast examination demonstration.
At least,
They are concern toward their own health,
and their daughters too.
This are those health concerned and educated people.

Here,
I would clarified again,
Breast cancer and breast tumor DO NOT necessary occur in old women,
Instead,
most of the benign tumor cases occur in age of 18-40.

Based on my observation,
most of the people rejected us
either they are afraid of donation,
or they are afraid of facing the truth of self-breast examination,
They are in denial that they won’t get it.

At the end of the day,
after repeating the dialogue and demonstration hundred times,
I could actually memorize the whole paragraph and explanation.

Overall,
I really feel proud toward myself and my fellow colleagues,
as WE able to educate and teach the public regarding breast cancer,
though we did it as a charity and it was a non-profit campaign.
I think that this would benefit the people, especially among the women and girl.

“90% of the early detection can be cured.”







Breast Cancer Awareness Campaign- “Love Your Breast, Stay Abreast”

On the 7th & 8th April 2012,
From 10.00am to 10.00pm,
In AEON JUSCO, Taman Equine, Seri Kembangan,
Organised by Cyberjaya University College of Medical Sciences (CUCMS) & Young Mercy,
In collaboration with National Center Society Malaysia (NSCM),


With enthusiasm carrying the college’s main slogan
“Nurturing the Passion to Care”
We proudly brought the community with
“Pink Awareness Campaign”
in conjunction with the Breast Cancer Awareness Program(BCAP).

“Love Your Breast, Stay Abreast”
Together,
My Young Mercy colleagues & I,
would wish to raise the awareness toward BREAST CANCER,
especially among the women population,
rather rare in men population.


“Get your PINK t-shirt,
Collect your PINK ribbons,
Donate & sign the PINK board,
Show us your PINKY healthy support!”

In spite of dignity,
either male or female,
WE walk into the public,
WE educate the public…

This is what I care to give hope,
This is what we care to give help,
Have you???
Show THEM your support,
and they should neither walk nor fight alone…



Love Your Breast, Stay Abreast.
BE AWARE, GET EDUCATED. EARLY DETECTION SAVES LIVES.







Wednesday, April 4, 2012

我的生日梦。。。

那一年…….19岁,
记载着毕生难忘的一页,
惊喜的生日派对,
响起的生日歌,
捧起的生日蛋糕,
朋友的生日祝福,
那是我第一次与朋友一起度过生日。

亲戚的祝贺,
朋友的祝福;

欢乐的气氛,
五彩缤纷的气球,
综合的礼物;

美味的佳肴,
甜蜜的香槟,
完美的生日蛋糕,
合欢的生日曲子,

那是我的生日梦。。。

一道道岁月的门栏,
一载载蹉跎的时光,
数数路过的步伐,
其实我已经21岁了。

但,
我从没与他人分享我的生日记录,
哪怕只有区区那么一次的回忆。

这一生中,
我切下的生日蛋糕不多,
屈指可数;
记忆残留下的只有,六个吧
呵呵,
生日蛋糕一直都是我的梦想。

一个众人为我合欢的生日派对,
一个众人为我祝福的生日派对,
一直都是我的梦想。

你会笑我,
他会笑我,
大家会笑我,
但,我就是没拥有过自己的生日派对。

其实,
我的梦想很简单,
我只不想孤孤单单度过每一年的生日,
至少天涯海角有个人陪我一起庆祝。


Sunday, February 26, 2012

等待·手术室外

阴暗的灯光,
凄冷的楼阁,
黑暗的角落,
寥寥无几的背影,
楼梯口不时传来的吵杂声,
不禁撩起毛骨悚然的恐惧感。

苍白无色的四壁,
犹如一道道困惑四周的围墙,
压迫着,
压抑着,
渐渐地强逼夺取属于我的安全地带。

嘀嗒,
嘀嗒,
一分一秒的折磨,
深深波动自我身心的思绪,
渐渐无中生有的恐惧。

一面间隔的门栏,
白袍护士,
蓝袍医生,
苟照出一种紧张严肃的气氛。

茫茫无际的脑海中,
一幕幕漂印着你我回忆的片段,
仿佛时间停顿在那短暂的一刻。
原来,
恐惧是种痛苦难耐的折磨,
远远不如皮肉之肤的折腾。

我就等待在门外的那头,
而你却奋斗在门后的另一头。

Friday, February 17, 2012

GUYs to GIRLs

When she stares at your mouth; 
Kiss her.

When she pushes you or hits you like a dummy cause she thinks shes stronger than you; 
Grab her and don't let go.

When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough; 
Kiss her and tell her you love her.

When she's quiet; 
Ask her whats wrong.

When she ignores you; 
Give her your attention.

When she pulls away; 
Pull her back.

When you see her at her worst; 
Tell her she's beautiful.

When you see her start crying
Just hold her and don't say a word

When you see her walking;
 Sneak up and hug her waist from behind.

When she's scared; 
Protect her.

When she steals your favorite hoodie; 
Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night.

When she teases you; Tease her back and make her laugh.


When she doesn't answer for a long time; 
Reassure her that everything is okay.

When she looks at you with doubt;
Back yourself up.

When she says that she loves you;
she really does more than you can understand.

When she grabs at your hands;
Hold her's and play with her fingers.

When she bumps into you;
bump into her back and make her laugh.

When she tells you a secret;
keep it safe and untold.

When she looks at you in your eyes;
dont look away until she does.

When she says it's over;
she still wants you to be hers.

- Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything

- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go

- When she says she's ok don't believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she'll remember you

- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her

-Treat her like she's all that matters to you

- Stay up all night with her when she's sick

- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it's stupid

- Give her the world.

-When she's bored and sad, hang out with her

-Let her know she's important.

- Don't talk about other girls around her